What Is Upbringing?

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Upbringing is the deliberate influence on another person's development. The word "deliberate" is what counts here, because whoever brings up a child pursues an intention and a goal, even if they do not always name either one. That intention sets upbringing apart from the many other influences that act on a child every day.

Alongside upbringing stands socialization. It takes place even when nobody means to educate, for example in dealings with peers or in everyday social situations. This distinction makes clear that upbringing is only one part of the wider process through which a person becomes a member of society. Socialization is, in a way, the background against which upbringing takes place.

What Is Learning?

Learning is a process in which knowledge, abilities or attitudes change. The term covers more than learning at school, since people also learn outside school, at work, at home or while following their own interests. Learning describes a change in the person, whether or not anyone planned it.

Understood this way, learning requires neither a teacher nor a curriculum. It is enough that after an experience someone knows, can do or thinks something different from before. That is why the term often serves as a starting point when the subject is development and not just education in institutions.

What Is Bildung?

In the German tradition, Bildung stresses the active role of learners in their own development. The person does not simply receive ready-made content but helps shape their own development. This sets Bildung apart from upbringing, where the person exerting the influence is at the center.

Keep in mind that in everyday language the word Bildung is often used as a synonym for school instruction. Pedagogy, by contrast, works from a more precise understanding in which a person's own share in the process is decisive.

Where Does One Concept End and Another Begin?

The easiest way to show this is with a child in three everyday situations. A parent explains how to tidy up toys and makes sure the rules are followed. An intention and a goal stand behind this, so it is upbringing. On the playground the child picks up the slang of peers. Nobody plans this, and yet the child starts to talk differently. That is socialization. In the evening the child picks up a book and finds out something new. Learning is taking place here. Because the child deliberately steers their own development, we can speak of Bildung too.

The same pattern applies to learning a language. When parents correct the child's speech and explain how to speak, they are exercising upbringing. When peers bring in new words, socialization takes place. If the child practices alone or attends a course, we describe that as learning. Their active part in developing their personality is already Bildung. For a practical distinction, you can ask whether someone acted intentionally, what change occurred in the person and what role the learner played in it.

The boundaries are fluid, however, and different traditions define the terms differently. That is why general pedagogy sorts out these concepts and asks about the goals of upbringing, not just its methods. Anyone who understands the core concepts of pedagogy well can read academic work more consciously and place arguments about what good upbringing means more calmly.